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Better Man (Pearl Jam song)
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Wikipedia article
"'Better Man'" is a song by the American rock band Pearl Jam. It is the eleventh track on the band's third studio album, 'Vitalogy' (1994). The song was written by vocalist Eddie Vedder. Despite the lack of a commercial single release, "Better Man" reached the top of the 'Billboard' Mainstream Rock Tracks chart and spent a total of eight weeks at number one. The song was included on Pearl Jam's 2004 greatest hits album, 'rearviewmirror (Greatest Hits 19912003)'.
Origin and recording
The song was written by vocalist Eddie Vedder when he was in high school. He said, "I wrote 'Better Man' before I could drinklegallyon a four-track in my old apartment."Marks, Craig. [http://www.fivehorizons.com/archive/articles/spin1294.shtml "Let's Get Lost"]. 'Spin'. December 1994. In another interview, Vedder stated, "Sometimes I think of how far I've come from the teenager sitting on the bed in San Diego writing 'Better Man' and wondering if anyone would ever even hear it."Hilburn, Robert. [http://www.fivehorizons.com/archive/articles/latimes2.shtml "Working Their Way Out of a Jam"]. 'Los Angeles Times'. December 22, 1996.
He first performed it with a San Diego, Californiabased group called Bad Radio, with slightly faster tempo but altogether quite similar to the 'Vitalogy' rendition. Vedder later recorded it with Pearl Jam, although Pearl Jam was initially reluctant to record it and had initially rejected it from 'Vs.' due to its accessibility.
Producer Brendan O'Brien said of the song:
There's a great song we recorded for 'Vs.', "Better Man," which ended up on 'Vitalogy'. One of the first rehearsals we did they played it and I said "Man, that song's a hit." Eddie just went "uhhh". I immediately knew I'd just said the wrong thing. We cut it once for 'Vs.', he wanted to give it away to this Greenpeace benefit record, the idea was that the band was going to play and some other singer was going to sing it. I remember saying to the engineer, Nick [DiDia], "This is one of their best songs and they're going to give it away! Can't happen!" And we went to record it and I'm not going to say we didn't try very hard, but it didn't end up sounding very good. I may have even sabotaged that version but I won't admit to that. It took us to the next record, recording it two more times, before he became comfortable with it because it was such a blatantly great pop song.
Lyrics
Al Weisel of 'Rolling Stone' called the song a "haunting ballad about a woman trapped in a bad relationship."Weisel, Al. [https://web.archive.org/web/20070930210457/http://www.rollingstone.com/artists/pearljam/albums/album/106536/review/5945968/vitalogy 'Vitalogy' review]. 'Rolling Stone'. December 15, 1994. Retrieved on March 1, 2008. When "Better Man" was performed on VH1 'Storytellers' in 2006, Vedder introduced it as a song about "abusive relationships."Cohen, Jonathan. [http://www.billboard.com/bbcom/news/article_display.jsp?vnu_content_id=1002612367 "Pearl Jam Tells Its 'Story' At VH1 Taping"] . 'Billboard'. June 2, 2006. Before a performance of the song at Pearl Jam's show on April 3, 1994 in Atlanta at the Fox Theatre, Vedder clearly said "it's dedicated to the bastard that married my Momma." He was referring to his stepfather, Peter Mueller, a California attorney whom Vedder had long believed to be his biological father and who divorced his mother in the early 1980s.
Reception upon release
Although never released as a single, "Better Man" nonetheless became one of Pearl Jam's most-played songs on the radio in the U.S. "Better Man" became the most successful song from 'Vitalogy' on the American rock charts. The song reached the top of 'Billboard's Mainstream Rock Tracks chart, number two on their Modern Rock Tracks chart, and number 13 on their Top 40 Mainstream chart in 1995. The song spent a total of eight weeks at number one on the Mainstream Rock chart. It appeared on 'Billboard' magazine's Hot 100 Airplay chart, reaching the top 20. In Canada, the song reached the top ten on the Canadian Singles Chart on 6 March 1995. At the 13th annual Pop Music Awards of the American Society of Composers, Authors and Publishers, "Better Man" was cited as one of the most-performed ASCAP songs of 1995. Chris True of Allmusic proclaimed it as "arguably the stand out track on 1994's 'Vitalogy'and equally arguably[one of] the band's better songs in the whole of their career." He added, "'Vitalogy' was, admittedly, the end of Pearl Jam's reign as top rock act and it's because of songs like "Better Man" that they were able to stay there without succumbing to all the traps of stardom and shameless marketing."True, Chris. [ "Better Man > Review"]. Allmusic. Retrieved on May 16, 2008. When "Better Man" was performed on VH1 'Storytellers' in 2006, Vedder introduced it as a song about "abusive relationships".Cohen, Jonathan. [http://www.billboard.com/articles/news/58253/pearl-jam-tells-its-story-at-vh1-taping "Pearl Jam Tells Its 'Story' At VH1 Taping"]. 'Billboard'. June 2, 2006.
In 2021, 'American Songwriter' and 'Kerrang' each ranked the song number six on their lists of the greatest Pearl Jam songs.
Various performances
"Better Man" was first performed live at the band's May 13, 1993 concert in San Francisco at Slim's Caf, almost six months before the album's release, and had more of an up-tempo beat attached to it.[http://pearljam.com/music/lyrics/997/studio/20815/better_man?ref_album_id=18602 "Pearl Jam Songs: "Better Man""]. pearljam.com. In Pearl Jam concerts, the slow opening verses and choruses of "Better Man" are frequently sung as much by the audience as by Vedder.
The song is often performed live as a medley with The English Beat's "Save It for Later".
At the last Vote for Change concert on October 13, 2004 in East Rutherford, New Jersey at Continental Airlines Arena, Vedder made a guest appearance with Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band and sang "Better Man" upon Springsteen's request; sizeable numbers of the audience sang along with it. Pearl Jam performed the song for its appearance on VH1 'Storytellers' in 2006.
At Pearl Jam's August 29, 2006 concert in Arnhem, Netherlands at the Gelredome, Vedder tagged Bob Marley's "No Woman, No Cry" at the beginning of "Better Man".[http://www.twofeetthick.com/concert-chronology/pj2006/ "Pearl Jam Concert Chronology: 2006"]. TwoFeetThick.com.
The song is also a part of the so-called "Man" trio ("Better Man", "Nothingman", "Leatherman") played occasionally at concerts. There is no connection between the three songs beyond the word "man" being in each of their titles.
Certain live performances of "Better Man" can be found on albums such as: 'Live on Two Legs', the international versions of the "Nothing as It Seems" single, the bonus disc included in the Japanese edition of 'Binaural', various official bootlegs, the compilation album 'For the Lady', the iTunes exclusive release 'The Bridge School Collection, Vol. 1', the 'Live at the Gorge 05/06' box set, the live album 'Live at Lollapalooza 2007', and the Canadian iTunes edition of 'Backspacer'.
Performances of the song are also included on the DVDs 'Touring Band 2000', 'Live at the Showbox', 'Live at the Garden', and 'Immagine in Cornice'. The version of the song on 'The Bridge School Collection, Vol. 1' is a subdued acoustic performance by the band and was recorded live at the Bridge School Benefit.
Charts
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References
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