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Love the One You're With
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Wikipedia article
{{Infobox song
| name = Love the One You're With
| cover = Stephen Stills - Love The One.jpg
| type = single
| artist = Stephen Stills
| album = Stephen Stills
| B-side = To a Flame
| released = November 1970
| genre = Folk rock
| writer = Stephen Stills
| producer = Stephen Stills
| misc =
}}
"'Love the One You're With'" is a song by folk rock musician Stephen Stills. It was released as the lead single from his debut self-titled studio album in November 1970. The song, inspired by a remark Stills heard from musician Billy Preston, became his biggest hit single, peaking at No. 14 on the 'Billboard' Hot 100 in early 1971. David Crosby and Graham Nash, Stills' fellow members of Crosby, Stills & Nash, provide background vocals on the song. The song was also covered by a number of artists, notably the Isley Brothers, The Meters, Bucks Fizz, Luther Vandross and Richard Clapton.
Background
Stills wrote the song after being inspired by the tag line "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" which was a frequent remark by musician Billy Preston. Stills explained in 1991: "This song has been very good to me. The title came from a party with Billy Preston. I asked him if I could pinch this line he had, and he said, 'Sure. ' So I took the phrase and wrote a song around it. It's a good times song, just a bit of fun. My favorite part is the steel drums. I played them before a little bit but I just kept diddling around till I found the right notes."
'Cash Box' said that Stills' "unique melodic work, the harmonies and a booming rhythm track make this a bright attraction for top forty as well as FM playlists."
Chart history
'Weekly charts'
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!scope="col"| Chart (197071)
!scope="col"| Peak
position
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!scope="row" | Canada 100 ('RPM') Top Singles
|align="center"|6
|-
!scope="row" | Canada 'RPM' Adult Contemporary
| style="text-align:center;"|17
|-
!scope="row"
|-
!scope="row"
|-
!scope="row"
|-
!scope="row" | US Easy Listening ('Billboard')
|align="center"|32
|-
!scope="row" | US Hot 100 ('Billboard')
|align="center"|14
|-
!scope="row" |US Singles ('Cash Box')
|16
|-
!scope="row" |US Singles ('Record World')
|10
|-
!scope="row" |Australia ('Kent Music Report')
|29
|-
!scope="row" |Finland Singles Chart
|28
|}
'Year-end charts'
Isley Brothers version
Several acts have since covered the song. The most notable cover came in 1971 from the Isley Brothers, whose unique gospel-driven cover of the song sent it to the charts again reaching number three R&B and number 18 pop, giving the group their fifth US top 40 pop single. It also reached number 10 US 'Cash Box'. On the Canadian charts, their version reached No. 41.
Bucks Fizz version
UK pop group Bucks Fizz covered the song as their eighteenth single in 1986. The single, released in August, was the follow-up to the group's comeback top ten hit "New Beginning (Mamba Seyra)" and was seen as a make or break release. Ultimately the song peaked at a low No.47 in the UK Singles Chart during a three-week run.[https://www.officialcharts.com/search/singles/Bizarre%20Love%20Triangle Chart Stats - Bucks Fizz - Love The One You're With] In a review, music magazine 'Number One' said that the song lacked bass and sounded rather "tinny" but predicted that it would be a hit.'Number One', Single reviews, 26 August 1986 Member Mike Nolan puts the song's failure down to the decision to showcase other male member Bobby G as the lead singer. Their previous single had featured all the group equally and was a hit, while earlier flops had featured G on lead and this was a return to that format.'The Bucks Fizz Story', Glassbeach Media DVD. October 2010 A promotional video for the song was filmed featuring the group performing the song in a blue-toned studio accompanied by backing musicians.[http://raffem.com/BucksFizz85till2003.htm Raffem. 1986 - Love the One You're With] The single was released on 7" and 12" on Polydor Records with an extended mix on the latter, the B-side was a Bobby G composition, "Too Hard".[http://raffem.com/images/Bucks_Fizz2/P1020211.JPG Raffem. "Love the One You're With" single] Also included on the 12" was an extended mix of earlier single "I Hear Talk". A second 12" single was released featuring a dance edit of "Love the One You're With", backed by another alternate mix of "I Hear Talk".[http://raffem.com/images/Bucks_Fizz2/P1020214.JPG "Love the One You're With" Special 12" edition]
Chantoozies version
Australian group, Chantoozies released a version in February 1991. The song was the second single from the group's second studio album 'Gild the Lily'. The song peaked at number 21 on the Australian charts.
Charts
Luther Vandross version
American singer Luther Vandross released a cover of the song on his 1994 album 'Songs'. It peaked in the top 30 on the 'Billboard' Hot R&B Singles, 33 on the 'Billboard' Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks; and earned Vandross a 1995 Grammy nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance.
Critical reception
M.R. Martinez from 'Cash Box' described "Love the One Youre With" as "an optimistic celebration of love and music as Vandross is backed by an all-star choir that includes Lisa Fischer, Tawatha Gee, Jim Gilstrap and others." Pan-European magazine 'Music & Media' commented, "Hailed the King of silky ballads, Luther also knows how to speed it up. In a New Orleans way, and challenged by a gospel group, this Stephen Stills cover shows him at his toughest."Charts
Other notable versions
*Gino Soccio covered the song in 1988 and reached #79 in Canada.
In culture
In 2012, the song was featured in Ridley Scott's sci-fi movie 'Prometheus'. Idris Elba sings a short phrase from the song after describing a possibly fictional account of how his squeezebox used to belong to Stills.
Notes
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